Why Do People Dislike You?

Have you ever caught people who talks either about your past or your state now and spread hate comments about it? They ridicule your story like it's nothing. They do not know at all the specific reason why it happened, but easily conclude it without try to find out other perspectives. In this case, it might be a person who dislikes you. They listen uncomplate story then just believe it and start hating you. Suddenly, it is involved become hatred with no clear reasons.

Have you ever thought why these kind of people do the thing to you. Is it just because they dislike you? Why do they dislike you with no reason?

So, here's the reasons why people might dislike you:

The first thing you have to know is what brings out this situation. Someone does this thing when they feel threatened. They are frightened around your existing. That's because you are the one who is able to do anything. Even you both have in the same hard situation, but only you can overcome the situation, then they feel failed by you.

Naturally when people feel thretened, they will dig up your information, what activities you have done, what your past looks like, what will you do next. By these information, they might try to copy you. And this leads us to the second thing.

The second thing is you have what they don't. By doing some search about what I said before, they try hard to be you but can not. For example you are a smart one, and you have positive vibes so people like to talk to you, you are easy-going and knowing how to treat people well, you are physically pretty, you can buy whatever you want, etc. This is basically a person who has a jealousy of personality. Those kind of people won't be happy if you have it all at once. They often do fake smile or fake support and honestly inside of them sneer at you and try relating who you are in the past and who you are in the present, then start judging you.

It's normal that human have this personality, but we can directly lead this jealousy into a positive way, instead of negative way. For instance, you have a friend that collecting a bunch of achievements, and you get jealous by what his/her done. You can observe and absorb what's value that is able to take, so you can improve yourself. Otherwise if you choose the negative way, you only talk unethical about his/her life without impoving your ability.

Finally we can conclude that most of those people have nothing better to do with their lives and mostly toxic. They don't know how to spend their time on. Stalking you, dropping hate comments or secretly in their heart mouthed disrespectful comments. It affects their psycology that they feel superior because they thought what thing that has done is right.

For you who has experianced or right now suffering from this, I hope you keep going and setting your goals. Just focus on expanding your ability and one by one start realizing your goals.

"LET YOU LIGHT SHINE AMONG THE

DARKNESS OF OTHERS."

-DANIEL ALLY